What is an “Elder Orphan?”
In short, an “elder orphan” is a childless, unmarried or widowed baby boomer (the generation born between 1946 and 1964) with no support system. The classified definition of an “Elder Orphan” is seniors (65 and older) that are single or widowed that have no children and no known family member or designated surrogate to act on their behalf.
What will their Future Look Like?
Did you know that there are NOT enough nursing homes and facilities to care for the growing number of seniors who are on their own? Hence, they find themselves alone with no one to help care for them when they need it; often times becoming depressed and some committing suicide. According to the 2012 census bureau data, 1/3 of Americans age 45 to 63 are single and in a position to become elder orphans as they age. It is estimated by 2030, 5.3 million seniors will be living in nursing homes, which include hospital, rehabilitation, and hospice facilities which has increased 1.3 million from 2012. The decision to remain childless is probably contributing to this factor.
Plan for the Future Now- Ways to Help!
Elder Orphans will rise as the Baby Boomers age. As a result, now is the time to figure out a plan to avoid being old, alone, and without support. Here are some of the ways to plan for the future:
- Cooperative living situation (shared household). If you remember the TV sitcom, “The Golden Girls,” all four of them had a shared household situation which was a great alternative from living alone and being isolated.
- Paid Care Home Health Aides. Most seniors particularly would like to stay in their homes, so this is an option if it’s within your budget.
- Community Involvement in Visiting Nursing Homes and Assisted Living Residents. Most residents do not get any visitors which often times creates depression. For example, Faith based organizations can get involved visiting these residents.
- Awareness of the Risks for Elder Abuse. Most times elder care is extended beyond the immediate family, so we need additional awareness for elder abuse.
Creating programs that will support the current and future elder orphans will greatly diminish the isolation, depression, and suicide commonly found with elder orphans.
*Resources: www.family-studies.org; www.cnn.com; www.healthjournalism.org; www.census.gov
I live in Amarillo, Texas. I would am very interested in being a visitor advocate for anyone needing someone to visit and just be a friendly face.
Thank You.
God Bless.
Hi Katie! That is wonderful. I would look to senior centers, assisted living homes, and/or if you’re apart of a faith based organization who has this type of ministry group (or create one), and let them know that this is something you’re interested in. In addition, I would encourage you to create your own meetup group on “meetups.com” to solicit more people involvement. Meetups.com is very successful and I will be setting up my own meetup group in my area. I’m located in Northern Virginia so I’m not that familiar with Texas, but I’m sure there is no difference. Thank you for your note and support. Keep us posted… Blessings!!